🎙️ New Episode: You're not crazy. Your brain is protecting you.


Hi Reader,

Have you ever opened your mouth to share something meaningful… and suddenly the memory slipped through your fingers?

Maybe the sequence felt out of order.
Maybe entire pieces were missing.
Maybe your brain just… froze.

If that sounds familiar, I want you to hear this:

There is nothing wrong with you.
You’re not exaggerating.
You’re not forgetful.
You’re not losing your mind.

You’re navigating the aftereffects of trauma.
And your brain—beautifully, wisely—is doing its best to protect you.

In today’s brand-new episode of the Awaken Her podcast, I’m opening up about something I’ve quietly carried shame around for years: my struggle with memory and storytelling—and how it all started to make sense when I began learning about the impact of trauma on the brain.

👉 If you’ve experienced narcissistic abuse or chronic emotional trauma, you may already know what I mean by “brain fog.”

But what you might not know is that this fog is your brain’s way of protecting you.

And… it’s also why narcissists are able to gaslight you so effectively.

In this episode, I’m sharing:

  • Why trauma makes memories hard to recall
  • How narcissistic abuse creates confusion and self-doubt
  • My own journey through trauma, shame, storytelling, and reclaiming truth
  • A powerful reframe that I hope gives you some peace (and clarity)

📣 TRIGGER WARNING: I discuss my experience working in downtown Manhattan on 9/11 and being home alone during a home invasion, so please feel free to fast forward from around the 6 or 7 min mark until to the 11 to 12 min mark.


If this resonates, please hit reply and let me know what landed for you. And if you know a friend who’s been struggling with memory loss or confusion after a toxic relationship, please forward this along. She may need to hear it more than you know.

With you in healing,
Corissa

P.S. My new book The Savvy Girl’s Guide to Thriving Beyond Narcissistic Abuse is now launching May 27th (pushed back a few weeks!)! You can learn more inside the episode or visit corissastepp.com for all the details.

To your growth and expansion,

Corissa

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Hi! I'm a Somatic Trauma Informed Coach™ & Narcissistic Abuse Specialist™, Author and Podcaster

As a dedicated Somatic Trauma Informed Coach™ and Narcissistic Abuse™ specialist, my passion lies in empowering fiercely independent and intuitive women in releasing their emotional triggers and trauma so they may nurture peaceful, loving relationships.Drawing from my profound understanding of the nervous system, I guide individuals towards a sense of safety, enabling them to explore and heal the thought and behavioral patterns deeply rooted in childhood and relationship trauma, particularly narcissistic abuse. Through my unique approach, which incorporates Human Design, I help my clients rediscover their authentic selves, fostering their courage, confidence, and sense of worthiness, ultimately paving the way for a life they deeply desire.I am also an accomplished Author and Host of the 'AwakenHer Podcast.' In my work, I place a strong emphasis on the pivotal relationship one has with oneself—a transformational journey that has a profound impact on the connections we forge with others.With an unwavering commitment to creating a positive impact, I currently offer one-on-one coaching and have exciting plans to expand into group programs in 2024, allowing me to reach and impact even more lives.Beyond my coaching practice, I co-manage a spiritual retreat business (SoulFire Retreats), where we offer women transformative experiences to uncover their inner wisdom, establish a deeper connection with the Universe, and cultivate a profound bond with the world around them.

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